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Wednesday, August 3, 2011

And The Life Starts Now...



"Life happens all the time, night and day,
We live or not, it goes it's own way.

Why we are wailing, whining over the past,
When time is moving so fast.

Life does give a second chance and third and fourth,
But to one who always looks forth."

We never think of how good we are, we never believe we could have been worse, but always complain that we deserve better. Of course, we should be positive about future and never stop dreaming. We should be determined to realize those dreams. But why do we get depressed when we don't achieve what we want to. If a path closed then it was not for us, we have to look for the next and if required, make our own path. We always have to take it as a new challenge even if we have failed a hundred times. Because there is always 101 th way by which we can make it to success. 

What we do has to be a milestone every time pushing up the bars of satisfaction for us, for those we work for and for those we work with. If we compete with ourselves means we respect nature. It's actually how nature evolves. By devising methods to destroy what is made and reinventing the ways to rebuild, better than ever. 

But what stops us from restarting is the memory, the apprehensions, the fear of having failed and having been rejected. Experience, which has cluttered the brain is a bottleneck and which has strengthened the hand is an asset. We have to use this asset to re-establish ourselves, and do it better, every time we try.

"Not the potential to rise or sustain but the confidence to strike back, is manhood."

Let's restart with all we have gained, acquired no matter what, no matter how....
but start with the feeling that The Life Starts Now...




Best Wishes-                                                     


Nakul Mudgal,       August 04, 2011

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

The Bonsai Life

How much are we fascinated by the charm of wild Lily flowers flourishing along the bank of rainy waters, unprotected, unshielded and exposed to each and every threat to its existence by nature? On the other hand how much are we influenced by the glory of a sophisticated, nicely knitted bunch of expensive Roses, tucked in to a vas on your boss’s king size table.

Which flower’s life do we admire and want to live ourself? The Rose or The Lily?

Many of us are really fascinated by the life of The Rose. He is well nurtured, carefully brought up, secured from disasters. Even after being plucked up he has the surety of being noticed, admired and be alive for a day or two unless been replaced by another one of its kind.

How idiot we would sound to admire the life of the Lily who has no such privileges. Just living his life on the mercy of nature and struggling with the uncertainty of life every other moment. He will never have the kind of security The Rose has. So, how does it matter if he is enjoying his life by himself with no other force but nature or him to dictate his destiny?

In fact, the Rose’s life looks more promising in the way of comfort and security, but..

“Security at the cost of growth is always a bad deal”.

The moment we start realizing that we are more than a flower, a showpiece, things become entirely different. We start thinking that we have the potential to grow as a large shady tree with strong roots and ages of dignified life to live.

Suddenly, The Bonsai Life which we are seasoned to live becomes nuisance to us and then only we come to know that we actually have Choices.

Choice to refuse, Choice to say ‘No’, Choice to write our own destiny and Choice to make our own path to success. The moment the fear of insecurity vanishes we get the courage to make decisions.

“The illusion of being absolutely secured erodes us more than the fear of being absolutely unsuccessful”.

It may take a moment, months or years to realize this; however it doesn’t make a big difference. What actually make the difference is how soon we learn to accept our failures, how soon we learn not to fail and subsequently how soon we learn to turn a failure in to a success.

For that we have to believe in our intuition with no doubts raised on our decisions forever, for the whole life.


“Success on my terms would be a long journey; I believe I have a longer life”.

Best wishes,

Nakul Mudgal 21/07/2010 Wednesday

Monday, July 19, 2010

Living Up The Journey

Life is a race. Competition is fierce. We have to achieve targets, set goals and follow them so that we can survive. It is imperative for everybody to exploit each day in present to secure a luxurious tomorrow. We all are fearful of an ugly tomorrow. We get upset when we think of being insecure at the end of life.

Come what may the "End" has to be beautiful. All the way to our growth we have been taught-

"All is well that ends well".

So all we think of is to end gracefully; To finish like a king; To die like an emperor. We are so desperate for a beautiful end that we forget to stop and live in the moment.

How many times have we thought of making the journey beautiful?

"A beautiful journey alleviates the desperation for a beautiful end".

Why are we reluctant to accept that the journey could be beautiful, enjoyable and fulfilling?

Why do we refuse to accept if we pause to enjoy the moment it will in no way stop us from realizing our dreams, which we have seen for days, months or even years?

Each night we refresh our dreams which are engineered by our environment for us and each morning we train our mind to run and catch them as fast as we can. Have we ever thought of living a small piece of dream in real life and feel how does it taste?

"A moment of dream spent in life is worth more than decades of life spent in dreams. "

So it's important to dream big, chase the impossible and try to do something extraordinary which makes us feel special. At the same time it's important to live life in the moment "Now".

Enjoy the moment "Now".

Go and do all those small things to make this journey enjoyable. Go and fulfill all those small wishes which will be worthless by the time you reach your beautiful end.

Wish you a beautiful journey.

Nakul Mudgal – 19/07/2010 Mon